Saturday, March 10, 2012

Modern Day Miracle

It's really real. We passed Embassy. This was not supposed to happen. Relative to the current process, concerning Ethiopian adoption, us clearing at Embassy level in four weeks is literally a modern day miracle. We remain awestruck. 

Rewind... I wasn't able to sleep the morning of March 8th, knowing that 3:30am our time translated to 11:30am in Ethiopia so I did what any desperate adoptive parent would do, I emailed the Embassy directly hoping to receive an answer to calm my restlessness. After sending not one but five emails (yes, that reads five) I eventually fell back asleep feeling a small dose of relief and woke again an hour before school began for the kids. My hand instinctively reached for the iPhone and in a moment I saw the message that changed everything. It was from the Vice Council at the US Embassy in Ethiopia and after reading through two paragraphs of explanation as to why we hadn't heard any updates, I'd about given up hope and then the last paragraph hit me like a ton of bricks... specifically the underlined sentence reading: 'That said, I’ve reviewed the additional documents you submitted as part of your own investigation of the abandonments of Sena and Mohammed and we’ve decided to move forward with the visa interviews for both children.' 

I. Was. In. Shock.

We have been waiting for this moment for over two and a half years and I had often daydreamed about what it would feel like. With full disclosure I admit that the reality far outweighed  the dream and somehow in my euphoric state I managed to phone AJ. Let me preface that I never call him before 8:00am, primarily because I'm not much of a morning person, but in this instance I was hopped up on glee and happy as could be. He was doing his hair while driving (yes, I scolded him) and initially thought I had either hurt myself or one of the kids were sick because why else would I be phoning. Eventually after a few attempts at sharing the news of us passing he was able to decipher my mumbling between sobs, screamed (a manly scream of course) and began crying himself. I told the kids as soon as they woke wherein Sophia smiled bigger than I had ever seen her smile previously, Etienne almost didn't believe me and Charlotte loving proclaimed that her baby twins were coming home. In celebration mode, the rest of the morning was spent working out travel arrangements, packing, planning and dancing because we were seriously that happy!

Fast forward... As a family we are boarding a plane destined for Ethiopia this Friday. All five of us are traveling to reunite with the littlest of Finks half way around the world. I am a bit apprehensive when I think about five to two ratio on the flight home, but the joy of finally reaching this point  and the thought of us all being together diminishes my fears. Our Embassy date is March 21st and from that moment on it is done, we will officially be a family of seven and this roller coaster ride is shut down!

We. Are. Almost. There.


Laurent

Nicasio

7 comments:

  1. Yeah Fink Family! Look at all Nicasio's hair!! So happy for you guys!

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  2. Yay, so happy for you. I am hoping that this week goes by fast and you will have your babies in your arms!

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  3. What a great story!! I remember getting an email similar from Embassy and we just jumped for joy all over our living room, in the middle of the night :)
    Good luck on the flight back-->we ended up relying on the kindness of strangers to help us a couple of times and we just had a two/two ratio!

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  4. Huge Congratulations!! So, so happy for you all! I remember well the feeling of that final email from the embassy! We were in such disbelief we had to call our caseworker at 8:15 am and say, "Is this real? Are you seeing the same email from the embassy?" Wishing you very sweet travels with many hours of sleeping children :)!

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  5. That is amazing! How exciting! Our prayers will be with you and your whole family of seven throughout your travels!

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  6. So happy for your family as I have been following your story and praying for you during this difficult time. Praise the Lord these boys are coming home with you next weekend. I will continue to pray. It gives us hope for our kids to one day be adopted as well. Thanks for sharing your story so honestly. Enjoy this fufilled promise of God's mercies.

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  7. So happy for your family as I have been following your story and praying for you during this difficult time. Praise the Lord these boys are coming home with you next weekend. I will continue to pray. It gives us hope for our kids to one day be adopted as well. Thanks for sharing your story so honestly. Enjoy this fufilled promise of God's mercies.

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